Friday, April 24, 2009

It's my blog- so I am gonna bitch if I want to!

Chris has a way of being extremely insensitive- really, its a guy thing I am sure. But last night was over the top! We go round and round about this same topic at least 4 times a year if not more.

So, I went to bed last night at about 9 or 9:30. I was exhausted, and Brady and I napped for over 2 hours during the day, and the night before I shit you not, I slept for 12 straight hours. I am so exhausted tired lately! The last couple weeks my days off always include a 2 hour nap, and as you can see my my PP, I value sleep more then anything else. This will pass in a couple weeks..... I remember being like this when prego with B. It passes and I will be back to my crazy energentic self in no time!

First- have to give you an idea of a day in my life. I either work 7:45-5:30, or I work 9-7. So, I leave home at 6:45 and get home around 6:30, or leave at 8 and return at 8. I am on my feet for the majority of the day. (last pg I napped on my lunch breaks just to keep up, so far I havent done that) Not just standing, but hauling around plants, chasing down customers, walking all over the place. It tires me out being not pregnant. I work 5 or 6 days a week doing this. (in the spring) In the winter things are different and I really contribute in the house and make up for it.

Chris woke me up last night to call me LAZY. Seriously. Pregnant, mom, manager and spring. WTF. Then of course he walked away. Like I could go back to sleep? I seriously felt like beating him- but I didnt go thru with it. I have never wanted to beat him so badly ever! Lazy. So we argued about this for a bit and decided we were getting no where- and then actually talked about it. He said he should have choose a different word. And when we argue about this he always says "quit bringing work into it, it has nothing to do with you working- everyone works". (he works in town, he leaves home at 6:40, returns at 3:15)

Anyway... it sort of resolved.... he hates the house not being tidy. I understand that, but I am exhausted and value sleep WAY more then a tidy house. Things probably look worse then they are because I just spent 4 days puking and pooping and worked all those days right through it except for 1.5 days. So I could REALLY care less about the house when I got home.


Emily said...

do you want me to come down there and kick his ass?!?! i'm feeling like I could! :) doesn't this just make you feel like crap?!?! i think we're married to the same man....mine comes home and sits! good grief! things are GONNA change!

Sarah R said...

OMG, that sucks!! You are anything BUT lazy. OMG, you are non-stop busy. I am so sorry he said that to you. Plus, being pregnant, OMG....I was so exhausted. I can just imagine how you feel right now, let alone working those long days!

My hubby can be an ass too. The other day he told me that I had a big ass and he also said I sit on my ass and am too lazy to get up to pour a glass of juice. All of this because I didn't realize we still had o.j. left and so I was like, "really? there's some left?" (like inquisitively asking) and so he pours me a glass. Well, the cover fell on the floor (off teh o.j.), Andrew picked it up and put it in his mouth and then I saw that he was about to choke so I pulled it out and he was fine, but I did yell at DH because when he drops things like that, he needs to pick them up. So he goes all apeshit on me and says I'm lazy. Really. I'm not the one who gets to stay home with Andrew and play house. He gets a ton of free time during the day. He can take a nap when Andrew naps--it's not like I can do that at work. Not to mention I am paying for 100% without complaining, because I am the sole provider. Grr.... I just hate men sometimes. Then he'll all of a sudden be nice and won't even apologize. It's always my fault!

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